Thank someone.

I was watching news reports this morning of the earthquake in Haiti. The president was interviewed and his words were different than what I've heard other leaders do in similar times of crisis. When asked what he'd like the American people to know, he didn't talk of how much more they needed. He simply said that he wanted the United States to know how thankful his country was for our generosity.

He was grateful. It was powerful. 

From those who participated in the annual Food Drop, many recipients were so very thankful for the gift. Food bank organizations couldn't get over the generosity being shown to them -- they were being helped so they could help others!

When we help others, the part that seems to touch us most is the response of the recipients. When they are overwhelmed with surprise or gratefulness, it moves us! We played a part. We made a difference. It's an incredible feeling! 

What if we flip it around? What if we try to help others see the difference they make? Take a few moments and notice what those who love you do you for you. (Yes, it means that you'll have to stop grumbling about what they haven't done!)

What have you taken for granted? What have you come to expect? (This is not about making sure your thoughtfulness is appreciated! Yes, we all take one another for granted. Go first!) Let others know how much you appreciate their thoughtfulness.

"Thank you! I appreciate your thoughtfulness." It's really quite simple, but simple isn't always easy.

 

Comments

[Nanci Zehner]

Thanks, Kathy. I'm going to share this with my team at work. Great words of wisdom. Take care!

[Dan Vukmirovich]

Good word, Kathy.

[Mark Waltz]

Great reminder, Kathy. Thank you. Thank you for your consistent care for people, for meeting them where they are and calling them forward to a place that is their truest self!